What I Learned from “Beautiful but Unaware” Women
We’ve all encountered them—stunningly beautiful women who, despite their looks, leave an unfortunate impression.
The Sidewalk Blockers
One day in the city, I saw two gorgeous women walking side by side on a narrow sidewalk, both glued to their phones. They were so absorbed in their screens that they forced oncoming pedestrians into the street. A businessman behind them had no choice but to walk at their slow pace, unable to pass.
They had clearly put effort into looking fabulous—but their lack of awareness made them unattractive.
The Subway Scene
Another time, I noticed a woman who looked like she had stepped right out of a fashion magazine. She boarded the train while casually pinching a pastry between her fingers. Then, she grabbed the handrail with those same fingers… and went right back to eating. Sanitary? Probably not.
To make matters worse, she leaned against the door between train cars, stretched her legs out, and blocked half the aisle. When a man in a suit tried to pass, he had to step over her feet. He didn’t say anything, but his long stare made it clear—he was not impressed.
Awareness Makes a Difference
Being mindful of your surroundings isn’t just about etiquette—it affects how people perceive you. A person who carries themselves with grace and awareness isn’t just attractive on the outside but also admirable as a human being.
Of course, no one is perfect. I’m sure I’ve unintentionally inconvenienced others too. But that’s why I’ve set a few personal rules to avoid being “that person.”
My Personal Etiquette Rules:
✅ No texting while walking.
✅ Avoid eating in crowded public spaces.
✅ Don’t walk side by side on narrow sidewalks.
✅ Don’t block doorways or pathways.
✅ Be mindful of long hair—it can whip people in the face!
✅ Never stop suddenly in the middle of a busy area.
✅ Pay attention to your surroundings—headphones make it easy to miss oncoming traffic or people.
These are small things, but they make a big difference.
A Beautiful Gesture That Stuck with Me
On the flip side, I’ll never forget a small act of kindness from a stranger.
As a child, I once struggled with a new type of sink faucet in a public restroom. I pushed, pulled, and twisted it, but no water came out. Just as I was getting frustrated, a young woman next to me gently said, “Slide it to the side.”
It was such a simple moment, but it left a lasting impression. I didn’t just admire her beauty—I admired her kindness.
That’s the kind of person I want to be.
Final Thought: Look Up, Be Present
If you’re always looking down at your phone, you might be missing more than just social cues—you could be missing a great opportunity. Who knows? Maybe there’s a charming stranger just waiting to catch your eye.
So, why not lift your head and see the world around you? You never know what—or who—you might find.
