If You Want to Get Married, Pay Attention to the “Three Bs”
Originally, I learned this idea as advice for men looking for a woman who would make a good life partner.
But the concept is just as useful for women, so I’d like to share it here with you.
What Are the “Three Bs”?
When you hear “Three Bs,” you might think of Bartenders, Beauticians, and Band Members—professions sometimes (unfairly) labeled as risky to date.
But that’s not what we’re talking about today.
In this context, the “Three Bs” stand for:
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Baby — Someone who loves children
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Beast — Someone who loves animals
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Beauty — Someone who values beauty and cleanliness
Let’s take a closer look at each one.
1. Baby: A Love for Children
Being able to find children adorable—even without knowing exactly how to interact with them—can be a big strength when building a family in the future.
Of course, there’s no need to worry if someone feels a little awkward around kids.
The key is whether they can show warmth and affection.
If someone is simply inexperienced but shows no coldness or indifference, they likely have the capacity to create a warm, loving home.
2. Beast: A Love for Animals
The way a person treats animals often reflects how they will treat family and loved ones.
Someone who can welcome a pet as a member of the family tends to be naturally kind and considerate toward others as well.
On the other hand, indifference or controlling behavior toward animals can sometimes hint at similar tendencies in human relationships.
Watching how someone interacts with animals can offer subtle but important insights.
3. Beauty: An Appreciation for Beauty and Cleanliness
A sense of beauty doesn’t just mean stylish clothes or fancy appearances.
One important aspect to pay attention to is cleanliness.
Even without being obsessively neat, someone who keeps their living space reasonably tidy usually knows how to take care of themselves—and others.
Cleaning and organizing aren’t just chores; they’re acts of love, both for oneself and for the people one shares life with.
Plus, the ability to maintain a pleasant environment tends to carry over into work, friendships, and all kinds of relationships.
Accepting Your True Feelings
Today, many women (and men) are thriving in their careers and living independently, both financially and emotionally.
Sometimes, that independence can lead people to believe they must never show vulnerability.
But deep down, many of us long to be loved, cared for, and cherished—and that’s not a weakness. It’s a beautiful, human desire.
Accepting this softer side of yourself can actually make you more approachable and lovable, strengthening your relationships naturally.
Don’t feel like you always have to be strong.
Allow yourself a little breathing room.
Final Thoughts
Marriage is often a matter of timing and fate.
But, just like the old saying goes, “Do your best, and leave the rest to destiny.”
By consciously nurturing the qualities represented by the “Three Bs,” you’ll not only build confidence but also attract better opportunities for love.
Keep the Three Bs in mind—and trust the journey ahead.
