“Youth” is undoubtedly a wonderful thing, and I too wish I could maintain my skin and physical strength.
However, it is also true that many people place so much value on “youth” that they develop fears and anxieties about growing older.
We often hear the phrase, “People are walking toward their death,” but aging does not necessarily mean losing one’s value.
For instance, have you ever felt that your worth is diminishing as you grow older? Men might feel they no longer have the physical or mental vigor they once did in their youth, while women might worry about whether their appearance or charm has faded.
But what truly matters is not preserving “youth,” but cultivating your own unique charm.
For example, a man’s appeal might lie in his confidence or capabilities, while a woman’s might be in her inner beauty or sense of nurturing. These qualities transcend age and come in many forms. There are women over 40 who receive marriage proposals from younger men, and men whose experience and status make them even more attractive as they age.
A great example of embracing a charm that goes beyond “youth” can be seen in women like Gina Torres or Judi Dench. They embody grace, wisdom, and the allure of mature women, continuing to inspire admiration in many people.
What I would like to suggest here is to ask yourself, “Am I charming?”
This question allows you to break free from the constraints of age and past values, helping you focus on your strengths and discover new possibilities.
For example:
- What do I like about myself?
- What skills or qualities do others appreciate in me?
- What aspects of myself do I want to develop further?
- If I feel like I lack charm, why is that? Are there areas I can improve?
Take a moment to step away from the obsession or lament over “youth” and rediscover your unique charm. By honing your individuality, you can shine in new ways, no matter your age.
The question, “Am I charming?” is like a gift to yourself.
By letting go of the fixation on “youth” and reaffirming the charm that lies within you, you can uncover a new brilliance at any stage of life.
Finally,
Although my grandmother has passed away, she remains a significant presence for our family. The warmth and unconditional love she embodied have deeply taken root in our hearts.
When reflecting on life, there may be moments when you feel, “It’s too late for me.” But why not reframe it a bit more positively?
“It’s just the beginning.”
May these words inspire you to take your first step toward something new.
