Sex is more about quality than quantity. Focus on ‘richness’ rather than ‘intensity.

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Are you measuring your satisfaction by how many orgasms you have or how many times you ejaculate in one night?
In fact, relying on the number of times is not that important. Similarly, how long you last or how many positions you change are also not that significant.
It is said that staying connected without moving for more than 30 minutes after insertion is beneficial. This is because it relates to the secretion of oxytocin. Higher levels of oxytocin can make you feel more in love and increase happiness during sex. This time can be important for deepening affection towards each other.
However, you don’t need to be fixated on this.

 

However, timing yourself to boast about how long you stayed erect is just self-gratification and unnecessary.
Saying you went at it for hours last night is meaningless. Relying on time and frequency is ultimately futile.
When you’re truly engrossed, you realize it’s morning before you know it. In that case, you forget about the positions, the number of times, and the duration. It’s like how time flies when you’re having fun.

 

Now, sex is fundamentally an act of expressing love using each other’s bodies.
More important than the number of orgasms or ejaculations is understanding that sex is not just an erotic act, nor is it merely a duty to make babies.
Because love is exchanged, a baby is called a ‘symbol of love’ and becomes a precious existence. Therefore, sex should not be reduced to a mere erotic act, a forbidden pleasure, or done carelessly and roughly.
Since most people are interested in it and can do it if they have a body, it is an act that should be treated with more care and consideration.

 

Slow sex, for example, can also become an intense way of making love. Perhaps it’s available on Amazon in your area?

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Soft caresses on each other’s bodies lead to a pleasure that even brings a floating sensation to your mind and body.

 

Another example would be massages.

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Using oil to relax the body, melting together with each other’s skin and body heat, connecting at the deepest level. While it may seem to lead to passionate and intense play, this happens naturally, unlike the somewhat violent intention to achieve orgasm through force.

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Touching briefly, then immediate penetration and rapid thrusting. Is this really pleasurable for both parties?
Women may experience pain, and for men, the pleasure is far from being squeezed or swallowed up.
Sex isn’t just about men exerting effort. While passive, women also use their bodies to guide men to pleasure.
Is the image like milking a cow? The vagina tightens and relaxes to pleasure the penis. Therefore, it’s necessary to open both the body and mind of the woman, and foreplay is important.

“Wait, are you saying it’s prioritizing women?”
But it’s like the saying ‘give first what you want to receive.’ Just as with ‘if you want love, you should love first,’ or ‘if you want respect, you should respect someone first,’ pleasure is given because it’s given.
Moreover, at the end of sexual intercourse, a baby is born, so there is a danger to women’s lives. If women are not guided to pleasure first, it won’t be worth it.

“Wait, women just have to wait?”
No, men are, to put it positively, straightforward. In other words, they’re simple.
You can make a natural approach, like leaning in a bit closer or drawing your legs nearer. It seems it’s also okay to clearly say, ‘I want to have sex with you.’ Some men even get an erection the moment they hear that.

 

How to define what’s ‘good’ for both of you is something only the two of you can understand. There are also same-sex couples, and I don’t know how they handle it.
What can be said, however, is that instead of superficial, intense sex, it’s better to focus on deep, intense sex that spreads inside.
It’s a kind of sex where you savor each other’s bodies, skin, body temperature, and scent, gently caress each other’s erogenous zones, and meld together both physically and emotionally.
Doing so can lead to plenty of lubrication and pre-ejaculate, make it easier to conceive if you want children, and for women, can improve posture.
Being rubbed with a penis is similar to massage or exercise in some sense, which can lead to a more stable pelvis and make it easier to conceive children, as well as giving you strength to support yourself and your baby during pregnancy.

 

Emotional satisfaction is elevated for both men and women.
Men gain confidence by satisfying their partners, making them more active outside, while women remember their femininity and become more open-hearted.
The urge to have intense sex, reach multiple orgasms, stems from a lack of confidence or dissatisfaction and emptiness in sex. This often leads to engaging in extreme BDSM with violence.
When these feelings of emptiness are gone, simply holding each other can become a source of joy. Polynesian sex is similar. It’s quite intense. Passionate moments are saved for the end, and until then, sex is about slowly and deeply caressing each other’s bodies.
The goal is not ejaculation but focusing on the exchange of love. Thus, it becomes a dense and fulfilling act, where there’s no vulgarity, no ego, no emptiness. If you’ve been troubled by these issues, you might find liberation from them as well.

 

So, why not focus on richness rather than intensity in sex?
If richness leads to passion rather than intensity, that’s good too. If simply holding each other tightly brings deep pleasure, that’s also good. It will surely open up a new world.

 

Thank you very much.